The “Inbetween” (For Readers & Clients)

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The in-between
This is for both readers & receivers. I just wanted to share a perspective on the parts of readings that can get forgotten. So many times the receiver can get so focused on the outcome that they can miss the lessons or the steps needed “in between”. As readers we should remember to keep in mind that our clients can take our information quite seriously so we need to be responsible how we present it. Too often I have had clients come to me for a reading and they’re frustrated because they had a reading prior and nothing has happened. Sometimes they blame the reader….sometimes they blame the Universe….(they don’t usually see their own part in it) either way they are frustrated & stuck.
Heres a couple of examples:
First one (career):
Client: I was told about 6 months ago in a reading that I should be working with kids but I still haven’t found that job and I need to be working! Why haven’t I found that job?
Me: Working with kids does seem to be the perfect fit for you. How many jobs have you applied for?
Client: Well only a couple….there aren’t many kid related jobs available.
Me: You haven’t applied for other jobs also?
Client: Well no…..I was told it should be with kids.
Me: (with a confused look on my face) But suppose you applied for another job, say for example Home Depot, and while at that job you meet somebody & strike up a conversation and find out that they are looking for somebody to work at their daycare? You would have been earning some money, feeling productive and were in the place you were meant to be in to meet this person and then find the job working with kids.

Second one (romance)
Client: I so tired of being alone….I’m never going to meet my soul mate!
Me: So what are you looking for or expecting?
Client: Well…I was told in a reading a year ago that I would meet my mate and they would make me so happy. They’re supposed to have blonde hair, be tall and the name was going to start with a “B”. I haven’t met anybody like that yet! When will I?
Me: How many people have you dated since?
Client: (with sad face) None
Me: Have you had opportunities?
Client: Kinda….friends wanted to hook me a few times & I had a couple interested but none fit that description.
Me: (wanting to do a V* slap but holding it back) OK….do you think that there’s a possibility that you were supposed to spend some time with one of these other people….wether that be to learn a lesson, teach them a lesson, gain something you needed or given them something that they needed? Or…maybe you would have met the person you were meant to be with through them?

Sometimes by skipping over or ignoring the “in-between” we change the outcome of what was supposed to be and we miss out on the experiences we were meant to have. As readers we should always remind clients of this and as clients we should always keep this in mind. Don’t be so focused on the outcome that you forget the “in-between”. Many blessings to you all!
Kat

About lorrainekat

I am the owner of The Enlightened Path Holistic Center, Reiki Master Teacher & Psychic Medium. I love learning, sharing & teaching inspirational ideas & thoughts. Alone we can accomplish so much but together we can light the world!

Posted on January 22, 2015, in holistic, Inspirational, metaphysical, mindful, readings, Thoughts and tagged , , , , , . Bookmark the permalink. 7 Comments.

  1. Excellent post sistar!
    As a reader myself I find it frustrating too, however, we have to remember that not everyone I’s as aware as us.

    This is a great piece to expand clients thinking prior to a reading.

    Blessings to you xx ❤

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  2. Thank you Maria ❤ I usually find somewhere before or during my readings to point this out. Many blessings xxxx

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  3. Reblogged this on Maria Wind Talker and commented:
    Brilliant piece by my friend Lorraine for anyone who has a reading. We are all responsible for our own Destiny, a readers role is that of guide, only! Being open to all opportunities that may lead us to our goal is vital. Xxx

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  4. Reblogged this on kat says and commented:

    A gentle reminder 😉

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  5. Michele Villalpando

    You know, I’ve had several readings & no one has ever explained this to me. I am gifted myself & give some people information at times yet I never think of this concept either. This would’ve helped me in life so much if I wouldve learned sooner. Thank you so much for explaining this. We get so caught up worrying about making the wrong choices that would prevent us from not getting what we want that we forget to just live & let it happen. I needed this, much lovee & thanks ❤️

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